World of Sexual Taboos

Ohhhhhhhhhhh, God!

Posted on February 20, 2012 by Sharon

What many find absolutely blasphemous is a mixture of anything sexual with religion. Ones that have Hierophilia however find it very arousing and are in fact very religious themselves.

A good client of mine was a church Vicar and used to LOVE when I would say Jesus Christ over and over, taking the name in vain. I myself am an atheist, so saying it didn’t bother me, but to him it was wicked and forbidden to use the term in a sexual conversation.

There actually are baby Jesus butt plugs and ones that really do masturbate with with crucifixes and the like. Ones that get into this fetish often get so worked up during sermons, that the excitement is sometimes transferred to a sexual feeling. There are different types of arousal, and they can get confused for some individuals. The feelings of excitement, anticipation, and exaltation can take on a sexual feeling for some, and they want to experience that arousal and high they do during religious fervor in a sexual sense and seek to either have sex or masturbate in a religious environment like a church, which of course they know is forbidden.

For ones not religious, it is hard to grasp the connection, yet for some it is quite an attraction indeed. Imagine the sexual role plays with the man dressed up as the priest, and the woman dressed up as a Catholic school girl. Using a rosary as anal beads, oh my, all sorts of naughty scenarios can come to mind…

Secret Interests

Posted on February 13, 2012 by Sharon

Expressing ourselves sexually to our partners can sometimes be a point of stress if what we consider exciting is considered taboo or outside the norm in anyway unless we know our partners share those same interests.

A client I spoke to for hours last week that is heavily into the BDSM scene said his wife has no idea about his secret interest. He has sent me pics of women in cages and hoods and strapped to crosses and wheels and tied up with rope and all sorts of things,a and his wife apparently has no idea about his secret interests. He keeps everything in a rented storage locker and has things in boxes labeled with “Destroy upon death”, to spare her from knowing.

I can’t imagine if I was her going to the said storage locker after his death and not going through each and every box. But that’s just me. And honestly, I would be upset at such a find. So I hope he’s entrusted such a duty to a lawyer or something. They wouldn’t care or likely be curious, but a wife sure would be.

He has had a colorful past with slaves and submissives and this wife apparently is clueless to the entire situation. Makes you wonder how you can live with someone for 20 years and not know what’s really going on with them inside their head. He feels she’s too sensitive a person to be able to deal with the info though, so she’s been kept in the dark all these years. Let’s hope he gets his wish and has things go to the grave with him, but if he wanted to make really sure, he’d dispose of the items before he died.

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Medical Fetish

Posted on February 6, 2012 by Sharon

One of the odd taboos I have dealt with in some callers is a medical fetish. There was one disturbed man that called that said he had employed the services of three prostitutes. He had no desire to have sex with them though, I was afraid to find out where he was going with this. He then told me he had a medical bag. He hired them and took them all to a hotel room and examined them gynecologically. I was horrified.

I didn’t even know regular people could buy gynecologist instruments , but he said indeed they could and he liked to examine all sorts of different women. I had never heard of anything like this. I asked if he’d been to medical school and been kicked out or left or something and was satisfying something along the lines of being a frustrated Dr. He replied no, he’d never gone to medical school.

I can understand men wanting to see ladies pussies, but the insides? Held open with speculums and such? Wow, there is no end to the weirdness that I deal with from some of these callers.

Some have medical fetishes involving impregnation within a clinical setting, or ones with small cocks like the idea of themselves being photographed, filmed, and measured and observed by a myriad of medical professions to record in their medical journals or documentaries. It is a very odd thing to be obsessed with. Most people don’t like going to the Dr., but then some like to go since all the attention is focused on them, they are attention getters of a very odd sort.

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Masochism

Posted on January 30, 2012 by Sharon

Last week we explored Sadism, this week the opposite side of the coin, masochism. Sometimes I think I fall into this category. A glutton for punishment who keeps getting in situations where I am continually at the mercy of others.

True masochists love to be humiliated or have pain inflicted on them, sometimes by themselves even. Ones would wear a hair shirt to increase their own discomfort. Some men call me while wearing male chastity devices. They want me to arouse them since they know they cannot masturbate since their genitals are under lock and key. Some devices even have spikes or points on the insides so when the wearer becomes aroused they will further dig into their skin causing even more pain and discomfort. Some have even used floggers upon their own backs to inflict more punishment if they are lacking a master or mistress to punish them themselves.

Some masochists like to put themselves in the hands of a master and allow themselves to be collared and led around on a leash like an animal, showing the master their place of submission. To hand over your control to another, to give another control over your orgasm, can be a very exciting experience. To fully submit to another and give up all control, they know you will bend to their will and do as you are told to do. To feel as if total control is in the hands of another. The sense of humiliation at begging to be allowed to cum, begging for their cock. It can be very erotic.

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Sadism

Posted on January 23, 2012 by Sharon

The term sadism comes from a very colorful character in history, the Marquis De Sade. He found great sexual pleasure in hurting and torturing others. Most of his staff would quit due to sexual harassment. He is quite a character to be sure. A prolific writer of pornographic stories, and this was in the 1700’s, imprisoned and committed to insane asylums for his ideas and treatments of others.

Many people today also really get off on sadism. The “S” in BDSM stands for sadism, named after our French bad boy. His relatives were embarrassed for many years to even be associated with such a man.

Some people love inflicting their power over others, power can be a very strong aphrodisiac. If both parties are consenting, that is fine, but this old boy loved to crack the whip on ones not wanting to play, which is abuse. You don’t go around hurting others. Some love to be abused those, they are the ones they should seek out the ones that crave pain and humiliation at the hands of another.

The movie 9 1/2 Weeks is a good cinematic example of an S&M relationship, not with violence though, with mental games and bit of spanking with a riding crop, nothing too severe, but still very much with the man in total control over the relationship. It’s a very erotic movie everyone with an interest in erotic movies should see. It can be very intoxicating to hand the control over to your partner, but you have to trust them to do this. But it can be very sexy indeed…..