Masochism

Last week we explored Sadism, this week the opposite side of the coin, masochism. Sometimes I think I fall into this category. A glutton for punishment who keeps getting in situations where I am continually at the mercy of others.

True masochists love to be humiliated or have pain inflicted on them, sometimes by themselves even. Ones would wear a hair shirt to increase their own discomfort. Some men call me while wearing male chastity devices. They want me to arouse them since they know they cannot masturbate since their genitals are under lock and key. Some devices even have spikes or points on the insides so when the wearer becomes aroused they will further dig into their skin causing even more pain and discomfort. Some have even used floggers upon their own backs to inflict more punishment if they are lacking a master or mistress to punish them themselves.

Some masochists like to put themselves in the hands of a master and allow themselves to be collared and led around on a leash like an animal, showing the master their place of submission. To hand over your control to another, to give another control over your orgasm, can be a very exciting experience. To fully submit to another and give up all control, they know you will bend to their will and do as you are told to do. To feel as if total control is in the hands of another. The sense of humiliation at begging to be allowed to cum, begging for their cock. It can be very erotic.

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Sadism

The term sadism comes from a very colorful character in history, the Marquis De Sade. He found great sexual pleasure in hurting and torturing others. Most of his staff would quit due to sexual harassment. He is quite a character to be sure. A prolific writer of pornographic stories, and this was in the 1700’s, imprisoned and committed to insane asylums for his ideas and treatments of others.

Many people today also really get off on sadism. The “S” in BDSM stands for sadism, named after our French bad boy. His relatives were embarrassed for many years to even be associated with such a man.

Some people love inflicting their power over others, power can be a very strong aphrodisiac. If both parties are consenting, that is fine, but this old boy loved to crack the whip on ones not wanting to play, which is abuse. You don’t go around hurting others. Some love to be abused those, they are the ones they should seek out the ones that crave pain and humiliation at the hands of another.

The movie 9 1/2 Weeks is a good cinematic example of an S&M relationship, not with violence though, with mental games and bit of spanking with a riding crop, nothing too severe, but still very much with the man in total control over the relationship. It’s a very erotic movie everyone with an interest in erotic movies should see. It can be very intoxicating to hand the control over to your partner, but you have to trust them to do this. But it can be very sexy indeed…..

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I’m No Slut


To many the sexually liberated woman is considered taboo. How DARE she think and God forbid act like a man? To satisfy her pussy, take lovers and not feel guilty? To be what many consider a slut. A man’s man can bed all the ladies he so desires, but a woman that thinks such a way is labeled a slut, a whore, a fallen woman.

In some countries she’d be stoned to death for behaving in such a way. I have had two different men tell me I am ruled by my pussy. That when my libido kicks into overdrive, look out. There is a song that describes this feeling, video below. Some people just have a power over us, like a drug, we are helpless to resist them. We are weak around them. We know we shouldn’t, that no good will come of it, yet we can’t stop going to them like a moth to a flame.

Many societies despise the sexually liberated woman, they fear her and her desires and appetites. One man told me he adores my appetites. He knows they are great. For food, for booze, for sugar and for sex. I often find greedy for one, greedy for all.

I am a hedonist, I want it all. All things are better for us in moderation of course, but some of us we just can’t say no. We don’t want to say no. Being at home with our needy, hungry pussies, their cravings for cock and orgasms, doesn’t make us sluts, it makes us sexual beings in touch with our sexual hungers.

Men are lucky in some ways, their appetites are not looked down on, after all boys will be boys right, well why should women’s appetites be controlled and squelched? What bullshit. I love to cum and I should be able to without being worried about being called a slut.

 

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Cum Facials

One thing a lot of men love to give a girl is a facial, and I’m not talking the kind that you get at the day spa.

I think it’s quite easy to figure out really, it’s like they are marking their territory by cumming on the girls face, or other body parts for that matter.

Men seem to think their cum is like liquid gold. One said he wished he could “mail me his cum, since I have earned it.” Gee, what a prize…..

They love to splatter their ladies with their homemade liquid gold and feel it’s a way of showing them they belong to them. It’s so primal to me, it’s almost laughable, like a dog going on a fire hydrant. That’s what I think of.

I have one tranny that calls me and loves to relate cocksucking tales and how much they love to walk down the street with cum splattered on their face after giving a blow job and having ones they walk past on the street see the evidence of their activities.

Thick, hot, gooey ropes of cum dripping from their pretty faces, evidence they have sucked their man off to the point of them blowing their load. THIS IS MY WOMAN! It shouts to see such marks on their faces.

Some men are so into facials, they will actually take supplements to increase the volume of sperm they produce, I guess they feel women want to be covered in even more cum than are already when getting a load blown at them.

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Free Love-Polyamory

Most cultures in the world value the pair bond between a man and woman above all else. Such a union is the very cornerstone of our societies, couples and family.

The notion of Polyamory, poly meaning many and amory meaning love, literally many loves, is upsetting to many. Polygamy is plural marriage, polyamory is love with many without the marriage.

Now lots of people are in multiple relationships, a wife and a girlfriend type of situation, but in most cases this is done in secret, not with the knowledge of the other partner, and certainly not their approval. Ones into Polyamory are all open, all approving.

I can certainly understand being in love with two different people at the same time. They each have different qualities and make you feel different ways, yet each still valued. You can love steak, and also love candy bars, but they are very different from each other, aren’t they, of course, yet you don’t want to give either up.

Ones that embrace Polyamory recognize that monogamy isn’t really a natural state of being for man to be in, so they allow themselves to be in love with more than one person at the same time. I understand the appeal of such a way of thinking, but how practical is it really to live life like this and raise a family, etc. Not very. I can’t imagine one always wouldn’t feel like second choice. People should be allowed to do as they wish as long as they aren’t hurting others and everyone is agreeable. 

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