Body Hair And Odors

Posted on April 15, 2013 by Sharon

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I’ve heard of guys into hairy pussies, and the other day one called into not only hairy pussies but hairy armpits as well. Not being a fan of body hair, I cannot possibly understand the appeal of it, but there are ones out there that do prefer the natural look and if that’s body hair, some love it. There’s no excuse for it in my opinion, it only takes a few minutes to shave literally, soap and razors are cheap, I just don’t understand why anyone would want this travesty when it’s so easily removed.

The body’s natural odors would certainly be held by the pubic hair and underarm hair. Now to the cave man, this was appealing, but we’ve become a bit more refined since then and odors are no longer appealing to the majority of us, yet there’s always some throwbacks that are turned on by things like this. Even with shaving, odors can be strong, with hair even more so. Some call and want to discuss body odors they find appealing, like foot and shoe callers very frequently desire to smell feet that have been in boots or shoes all day and are ripe, or one man calls that’s into stinky asses after a sweaty workout.

Some into the body hair thing just like the look of it, they don’t even need to be near the woman to smell them, just the sight of the hair alone drives them wild. Some want the full on growth, others just want the stubble of 3-4 days and it is enough to turn them on. But hairy porn is most definitely a niche out there in the internet. I know the shaved look is fairly recent in the last 20 years, but it was a good development in the development of grooming.

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Please Spank Me!

Posted on April 8, 2013 by Sharon

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Spanking and the fetish with it usually has roots that go back to our childhoods, since well, that’s when people usually get spanked. In schools in the past it was an accepted form of corporal punishment along with a strap across the hand. The thought of a school administering physical punishments is abhorrent to me, it doesn’t really seem the place even in families, but an occasional spanking isn’t going to hurt a kid too bad, but in no way should it be a school’s place to do that.

There were so many spankings administered in previous generations in school it has a deep seeded root in the minds of my men and took sexual hold of them and to this day even though they are adults it arouses them and they crave to be spanked as they were back then. Many even seeking out paid Mistresses to do the job. It never ceases to amaze me how many call that want to be spanked rather than doing the spanking themselves. It seems more natural for a man to spank a woman than a man to get spanked by a woman, even if light and playful. I can imagine getting spanked, but I sure can’t imagine being the one doing it, yet it’s so common for callers to ask for and it’s even a specialty of mine, I’ve had sore hands some days from so much hand clapping at times!

Silly boys…They want birthday spankings, spankings by celebrities, many like to go back and talk about mommy and how she spanked them, especially if she caught them jerking off when they were kids. It had a real effect on them. Parents have no idea the long lasting effects of what they might consider a fairly small disciplinary action and how it can color their child’s sexuality for decades to come.

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If Rape is Inevitable Enjoy It

Posted on April 1, 2013 by Sharon

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I well recall the horror I felt when a woman I knew said years ago in all seriousness, “If rape is inevitable, enjoy it.” You can’t imagine anyone saying such a thing. The taboo of sexual assault is sadly an all too real reality for many women. There is a little discussed situation that arises in up to 20% of rape victims. They have an orgasm. When rape victims experience an orgasm during their attack, they actually statistically have a harder time getting past the experience than ones that did not. They feel guilty sometimes, they question if they in fact invited the attack at times in the aftermath of their recovery.

The fact is physical stimulation during rape or childhood molestation can indeed bring about an orgasm against their will. Your body truly can have a mind of its own and there’s nothing you can do to stop it. Thankfully I have no first hand experience with this, but I read enough about women that did, and the shame they felt. Many even feel the 20% is under reported due to the shame, that if they told people they orgasmed during the attack, they wouldn’t be believed that the entire attack was against their will in the first place.

Biologically it may have its roots in our genes from the cave man days. Back in the Neanderthal days, it wasn’t all romance and Valentine’s like romance and love can be made out to be today. Sexual encounters were often brief and brutal, and it’s been proven that orgasms aid in conception. The contractions suck up the sperm more so than if a woman didn’t orgasm. These physical reflexes we have no control over have very deep roots indeed. I can’t imagine what it must be like to be victimized physically, and to have your body betray you in a way as well.

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Incest Around The World

Posted on March 25, 2013 by Sharon

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In most parts of the world incest is taboo. Some societies and countries permit cousin marriages, but in the Western world it is not allowed under many circumstances. There is an interesting phenomena known as genetic sexual attraction that has affected ones given up for adoption and when they are grown they track down the family from which they came and they are all of a sudden faced with a sexual attraction to one of the people in their long lost family.

It’s not that common, but with more people these days tracking down families they came from and with the internet it’s a lot easier than it ever was before, it’s quite common now for children given up for adoption or the parents that gave them up to do a search as an adult to find them now that they are over age. So the more people meeting this way, the more common a situation it is. Is this wrong? If both people are of age who exactly are they hurting if they are engaging in a consensual relationship that affects no one? If they, or at least one of the partners, gets sterilized so the possibility of children is removed along with the possible problems that can come from inbreeding, who are they really hurting?

There’s so many combinations of possible incest, some obviously are not a good idea, but if of age and consensual, I don’t see the problem. Some countries don’t even think you should marry one that is a relative by marriage, which is crazy, they aren’t even blood related! There was a story recently about the uproar over a man wanting to marry his recently passed away wife’s sister. No blood relation at all. It varies so much by county and culture. In the West, you’d not see many cousin marriages, but in the Middle East up to 25% of marriages are between cousins. Allowed or not allowed, taboo or not taboo, it will always be a controversial topic.

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Thou Shalt Not Covet They Neighbors Wife

Posted on March 18, 2013 by Sharon

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It’s natural to want more than we have, to covet that which belongs to others. If everyone is game, then let’s just call it wife swapping and be done with it. Up to 4% of the population of married couple are into the swinger lifestyle, that may seem like a small number but that’s millions of people. They actually report being happier and enjoying life more than couples in more traditional marriages, by quite a lot if the statistics are to be believed.

Many people see others behind their spouses backs, nothing new about that, but for ones to swing, swap and be open about it, that is the difference there. Ones that do it in secret, seem to be getting involved emotionally and can and do leave their spouses for the one they are seeing at times, in swinging, sex is viewed more as a physical recreation, a sport as it were and therefore the regular jealousies and emotions are not coming into play, so it’s not a threat to a relationship the way seeing someone in secret is. Ones acting in secret are often unhappy, ones in swapping are more often not, they just view sex as a fun activity to be enjoyed with others, not as an emotionally bonding experience within a relationship.

Swinging has increased in popularity since birth control such as the pill became widely available and many swinging communities once the members are tested have sex freely with each other without worries of sexually transmitted diseases. I knew a young man into this lifestyle, and they had a group of a couple dozen people and they considered each other safe to play with no worries of condoms. Everyone had either been sterilized or was on the pill. Not for everyone, but if both people wish to engage in sex as a sport, there are many swinging clubs out there, and many do require blood tests when you become part of their group.

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