World of Sexual Taboos

Let It All Go For An Hour-Or More!

Posted on May 5, 2014 by Sharon

When one thinks of escapism, sex may not be the first thing that pops into your mind, yet it’s a wonderful way to escape your troubles, if only for a short while. You can hopefully forget about your family issues, money problems, and any of a million other things and just relax and focus on cumming. That time to lay back and enjoy, do nothing but focus on the sensations, reality awaits you soon enough, just enjoy this brief respite from your problems and rejuvenate your body with a few full body orgasms.

I read recently that poor people have better sex lives than rich ones. I think escapism most definitely comes into play here. Their lives are miserable, consumed with how they are going to keep a roof over their head, clothes on their kids backs and food on the table, those are heavy duty problems. So an escape from that, even if only for an hour is welcome. The rich have no such day to day concerns, so they are in effect not as eager to “escape” since their reality is pretty good. It honestly makes sense. So the poor guy will knock your socks off a lot better than the doctor will in bed, honestly, I’m not shocked at this.

I’ve found at times of stress in my own life I’ve masturbated a lot more as well, the stress reliving properties of an orgasm are wonderful, that full body relaxation that comes, especially after you’ve exhausted yourselves after a few orgasms, it can sometimes carry you through the next day. If you’re feeling stressed, I highly recommend a few orgasms, it’s free and good for you, unlike booze, which does relax you, but is expensive and not good for you. So next time life is too hectic, give yourself some orgasms, it’s like medicine at your fingertips!

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50 Shades Of Sexy

Posted on April 28, 2014 by Sharon

With the popularity of books like 50 Shades of Grey, BDSM has become more mainstream than it was. It used to be considered to be on the fringes of acceptable sexual activity only engaged in by more extreme individuals. Now more are experimenting than ever before to kick things up a notch and see how they like it. For many they may never engage in more than a blindfold or being tied up to the bed posts, and that’s fine, it’s very tame and still gives you taste of something a bit different.

Others go whole hog into leather masks, pony play, all kinds of really out there things like pain and restraints, spreader bars. There really is no end to the lengths some will go, even inflicting pain to the point of bleeding and all kinds of things most wouldn’t be wanting to delve into. I guess as long as both are consenting and it’s what they want, why not. A few movies have touched on this theme, from “9 1/2 Weeks”, the classic in the 1980’s, to the bit more unusual “Secretary”, both of which I’ve seen a few times, to the upcoming movie version of “50 Shades of Grey”, that’s been much anticipated by the fans of the book series.

There’s different levels to any sexual activity. Some are looking for the role of the dominator, others do crave to be submissive, even to the point of abuse. It’s interesting how one can choose the opposite to what they have in their daily lives, the meek becoming bold, the gruff becoming submissive, many like to switch things up in the bedroom for variety, others like to flip flop and be a switch, depending on their partner and mood.

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Sounds of Sex

Posted on April 21, 2014 by Sharon

What is it about the sounds of sex that drive some of us wild and some of us wrinkle our noses up at them? I’m not into the body rubbing sorts of sounds, I like the breathing and moaning sounds, but some guys are really into the various squishy noises our pussies make when getting, fingered, fucked or licked. I have had many guys ask me for audios to make sure I put the mic down to my pussy to capture that wetness sound. Um, never goanna happen, too tacky and gross to me, yet it’s literally music to the ears of some.

Sounds alone can get us hard or wet when they are arousing and from a sexy sounding person. There’s been lots of icky sounds I had to listen to on calls over the years, from guys that think pussy licking sounds are somehow a turn on, oh if they knew how we mocked them and were grossed out by them, to ones that let out murderous roars when they cum, the thing about sex sounds is what’s music to one is torture to another. So many guys think we want to hear their lubed up cock squishing noises as they pump away, oh men are funny creatures!

Some breathing and moaning can get you more aroused than anything, if only they all sounded good! Some women have to deal with pussy farts, from trapped air making farting noises as it’s being pumped in and out with a moving cock, just think deaf people escape all this silliness! They don’t know what they are missing with not hearing all this stuff. Sometimes that’s a good thing, other times, they are missing out, oh well.

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Removing The Shame From Masturbation

Posted on April 14, 2014 by Sharon

For many people masturbation will always be taboo. Ones into religion will always be going on about how sex should ONLY be for procreative purposes and to touch yourself for pleasure is lustful and wrong. I was however glad to read recently that in the last few years, both England and the Netherlands have both come out with government sponsored programs to encourage the youth of the nation to masturbate at least once a day.

I was shocked to read they were both so forward with this plan, yet they realize it will likely cut down on teen pregnancy and possible date rapes to do so. I was thinking how in America this would never fly, way too much puritanical thought processes still in charge and Alabama still with sex toy laws on the books, yeah, not happening anytime soon in the States to have the government encouraging the youth of the nation to rub one out for the lowering of teen pregnancy rates etc. Makes sense, but would never happen. It was only in 1994 that Joycelyn Elders the Surgeon general of the United States was fired for wanting to promote teen masturbation in school sex education programs.

A woman ahead of her time. If only everyone was as practical thinking as she was. She too saw the benefit of it in the decreasing of riskier sexual behaviors that could lead to unwanted pregnancies and possible sexually transmitted diseases. It’s such a shame people don’t view a sex drive the same was as a drive to sleep or satisfy hunger. It’s a basic drive we have, and there’s no shame in satiating it. You don’t need to whip it out and jerk it on the mall bench, but there’s no shame in your own room or bathroom to deal with it. It’s a lot more accepted now that it was a few decades ago, but we still have a long way to go.

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Nyotaimori-Human Serving Platters

Posted on April 7, 2014 by Sharon

The practice of Nyotaimori is basically using a body as a human serving platter, usually a woman, and usually for sushi. The pic shown is little desserts though. It is illegal in several countries due to sanitary concerns and some say it objectifies women. It certainly doesn’t look like a comfortable thing to be doing if you’re the one on the table.

Total stillness is required, imagine all the food going rolling off! Hope they don’t sneeze, that could be awkward. One of the many odd things out there involving the human body, using it like a furniture item. Some into BDSM are into the whole human furniture thing. I don’t think I’d feel very good about eating food that had been laid out on a person, lord knows about germs etc. Men though are likely so wrapped up in admiring their body, they likely aren’t worried about germs.

Someone on a forum board I am on is going to a party like this soon, so that’s what gave me the idea to write of it, the human serving platters like this are usually for dinner parties or specialty restaurants. Who knows, it would be different for sure. The stories and pics you could share on your social media pages, not many get invited to such a get together. I recall years ago reading about couples shoving food up the woman’s pussy and then eating it out. Seems messy and a precursor to a yeast infection to me, but I guess whatever floats your boat. I recall one couple having difficulties since they got an orange up the woman’s pussy then couldn’t get it out. So ones are experimenting with food out there.