A taboo for some, increasingly less so though, is casual sex. As women become more like men in their thinking about their own sexual gratification, they are increasingly becoming more and more comfortable with a one night stand or as we call them these days, “hook ups”. Some people don’t even date anymore, the idea seems so quaint and old fashioned. They just hook up and sleep around with no worries of love or commitment of any kind.
Not all women can be as easygoing. Many women give men sex to get love back, men on the other hand give love to get sex. Men truly are from Mars and women from Venus! Some men think like women though just as some women think like men. I was stunned once when a client told me he was seeing a woman, this was sometime in the last spring, and I asked him how long until they’d be having sex. I nearly dropped the phone when he replied he doubted they would this calendar year! I didn’t know what to say. I mean, I thought a few dates, but he was talking the following Valentine’s Day as a possibility, that was like 9 months off!!!!
I’m pretty patient, but if some guy mentioned that to me, I’m afraid I’d be out the door. I just don’t get that at all. Yet I’ve talked to others that said they were fucking with their wife or girlfriend within 4 hours of meeting. As long as both want the same thing and no one will get hurt, have at it. Sometimes you can get overwhelmed with horniness and act on things, and you’d be better off masturbating than acting on what your hormones want and waking up and regretting it.
