If I Can’t Have You, No One Will

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Obsessive love is easy to understand for many of us. Certain people have a pull over us and drive us to do certain things we normally wouldn’t do. It seems more compelling when it’s a woman that is the obsessed party. The recent case in Arizona of the woman that stabbed her boyfriend 27 times and shot him has been very interesting. The passion to do so much, much more than was required to kill someone, that comes from either deep insanity or deep passion. If I can’t have you no one will kind of thinking.

Someone like that isn’t a threat to society at large, only to someone that arouses something in them and then doesn’t return those feelings of intensity. Not to say everyone with unrequited feelings is going to snap and kill the object of their affection, no, most will just feel bad for a few years and eventually get over it, some never get over it though and it stays with them their entire lives, that obsession for someone. Unrequited love is the strongest and lasts the longest it seems. It’s a sad state to be in, believe me, I know all too well.

However I was never driven to off them because I couldn’t have them. That kind of passion and obsession admittedly intrigues me a lot, the depth of the feelings. It’s an awful feeling to not be wanted back, no doubt about it. It’s so much more often men that turn to violence if a woman leaves, very seldom women, so when it is, it’s much more interesting and compelling.

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I Can’t Get No Satisfaction…

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Some men should have a sign above their beds promising 100% satisfaction guaranteed. Sadly, they are few and far between. It really is a taboo in mine and many other women’s eyes if a guy leaves us unsatisfied in bed. If a guy is selfish in the sack, I think he’s a total loser, a nothing, selfish prick. Some are like that for sure. Ones that will hang up on you during phone sex and not care about you cumming. Once they have cum, it’s over for them. Anyone else be damned.

They haven’t learned the fact that if you keep them satisfied they will keep coming back for more. But for selfish jerks that may just see a girl once then move onto the next, they obviously just don’t care, since they won’t have to see them again. I’d say these types would be better off with an escort, but these types would also be the types to not ever pay for sex, more than a few drinks in any case. They are the type that buys you dinner and expect you to put out for the privilege.

They are the ones that LOVE blow jobs but wouldn’t bother going down on the lady, nothing in it for them to do so. Them getting oral and fucking is about all you will get from them. Some cultures seem to have more of this type of men than others. Many will say they would never go down on a woman, but they expect blow jobs. Ones from India and the Middle East seem to have this mindset more than ones from other places I have spoken to, I have heard it many, many times from both. But then both treat women as second class citizens, so it’s not any great surprise to anyone, I am sure.

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Dimestore Psychologist

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I get lots of guys that want to fuck mom, that’s nothing new by any means, but I had one the other day that wanted to fuck mom-while dad watched. Now I think this fantasy is pretty easily solved, he wants to have control over dad, replace dad in mom’s eyes, be dominant over dad. Not too difficult being an amateur psychologist in many cases, you just have to look at it in a bigger picture.

Many times the would be mother fuckers don’t even mention dad, they just want mom. It’s so widespread I am shocked at it really. I don’t think as many daughters want to fuck their dad as son’s seem to want to fuck their mom. Not sure why this is. You’d think it should be equal, but it’s not. So many men seem to want to sexually take their mothers in every way possible, not just intercourse, but oral, anal, everything, and to want to take them in front of dad is the ultimate display of conquering dad, isn’t it now, it really is.

Perhaps other operators do not even try and unravel their clients fantasies the way I do, I have often referred to clients as “cases”, which my mom has always pointed out they are not my patients, nor am I a psychiatrist, but sometimes I do just think that way and that’s what many are to me, patients to my dimestore psychologist. Oh well, most of them seem to like my brand of sexual healing, so maybe I’m right and they are my “patients”.

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Sex With Disabilities

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Many would consider sex with the handicapped a taboo subject, but they have sexual wants, desires and needs just like everyone else, and it can be difficult for some of them to express those needs. Many like to think of handicapped people as asexual, as in that they have no sexual thoughts or desires, but that’s simply not the case. Some men in wheelchairs are still able to get erections and enjoy orgasms.

For some that are more severely handicapped, they may not be able to masturbate themselves and some personal care workers will do it for them. This is a topic most do not like to think about or discuss. If they cannot do it themselves, they are glad to have the help, but no one wants to think about someone jerking off people in wheelchairs that are incapacitated. There’s many things to consider for handicapped people and sex, they may not be able to use the same kinds of birth control as non handicapped individuals and they can many times still get pregnant, they may not be able to insert diaphragms or put on condoms, or may have medical conditions that don’t allow them to use the pill. Sometimes two handicapped people that are a couple require a third person to help them, it seems a very embarrassing situation for all involved. 

Handicapped individuals may have to use different positions to be more comfortable, or if the male can no longer get an erection, oral sex or hand jobs may have to suffice. If one partner becomes disabled while in a relationship, sometimes they like to watch their partner have sex with another person, not quite a cuckold relationship, but they can enjoy seeing their partner enjoy themselves and be a part of that. It has its challenges for sure, and not everyone would consider a relationship with a person that has a disability, but some can overlook it and deal with it.

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Naughty Young Boys

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Usually when a man has an ageplay fantasy, it’s about him and a young girl, but the other day a guy called and wanted to talk about a grown woman and a young boy, I don’t mean like a teen either, I mean pre teen. It was all quite uncomfortable and he hung up after realizing I was uncomfortable with the entire situation. I have no idea if he had experienced something himself when he was that age, consensual or as a victim of abuse.

In the fantasy, it was consensual, but still kind of icky and not something I want to talk about even for money. I am not sure what puts the ideas in their heads that they get when it comes to more extreme things. It makes me wonder if some episode from their past has somehow gotten twisted around and made this fantasy for them. I guess there are women that try things with boys that age, not as common as you hear of young girls getting abused by men though. And as is often the case, it seems to be consensual when it’s the boy that’s young rather than the girl, like in the cases you commonly hear about female teachers getting too close to their much younger male students.

In countries where age of consent is higher, it just is not worth the legal troubles that will follow you for the rest of your life if you are so inclined to try something, whether they say they want to or not, just wait til they are of age and not ruin your life. Fantasy is one thing, but making something into a reality is something else.

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