Horray For Porn!

Porn

Porn is so common place today, we barely give it a second thought. Many guys watch free porn as they masturbate, but think, just a couple of decades ago that was not the case. I grew up without the internet, pay t.v. cable channels didn’t even come out until the early 80’s so ones could watch from the comfort of their own homes, VCR’s were not common until the mid 80’s, guys now turn on their computer and have free porn in seconds. Just think how guys had to rough it with a ill gotten Playboy until then.

Even a magazine like Playboy wasn’t around before the 50’s. Imagine having to make do with your imagination or being a peeping Tom and spying on someone. That was pretty much your only choice. People have so much available at their disposal today, they have no idea what things used to be like, how plain jerking off must have been without all these modern conveniences that we now have and take for granted. It’s a different world, there’s so much more available to everyone if they have access to the internet, it’s literally a whole new world to them that opens up.

Ones today have it so easy! Imagine jerking off in the days of Little House On The Prairie. No porn, no erotic audios, no telephones for phone sex, hell, not even any running water in most homes to wash the cum off of your hand, good Lord, what a way to live! So let’s all be grateful for things in the modern world.

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Sleepy Sex

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The allure of sex while asleep or half awake is certainly there. Who among us hasn’t masturbated after we woke and we were not totally awake. It has an almost dreamlike quality. The thought of having sex with another person in this state also is nice. The dreamlike state of half wakefulness. I’ve always thought the idea of starting to play with someone when they were asleep would be a wonderful way to wake someone up.  Stroking them, especially if they are ones to sleep nude, as I do, so you have easy access to their naughty bits.

It doesn’t take much to become aroused in this state, men seem to wake up fairly horny anyway with their standard morning erections. I can’t speak for other women, but I know that’s the least horny time of day for me, it grows as the day wears on for me, cresting right before bed. So if I’d fallen asleep kind of horny, and was wakened by someone’s romantic administrations so to speak, I’m sure I’d be very receptive to say the very least!

Now some men have nefarious intentions here and wish to take advantage of a sleeping woman, which is kind of like rape to be honest, if someone is not fully conscious, they certainly can’t offer their consent, can they now? No. They are not drugged, it’s fast enough to wake up, I can only imagine waking up very fast if someone was stroking and touching me and I’d be right in the mood, I’m sure!

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May I Call You A Cunt?

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Swearing isn’t that big of a taboo really, yet to some men certain words act like absolute triggers. I think their mom’s must have told them certain words were absolute no no’s and that’s why they appeal is so great. Some like to call me names and ask before if it’s ok if they call me a cunt, I say sure, I’ve been called names and not paid for it, so knock yourself out.

Another man loves to hear the word fuck over and over as much as possible. He’s also into spanking, so I think when he was young, his mom might have spanked him for saying “bad words”. Words do have a power, when you think of someone that swears too much, like Ozzy Osbourne, that’s a bit much, every other word being that takes away the power and the effectiveness of a well placed powerful word and just makes them seem like a nit wit that can’t speak properly.

Swear words are usually fine in the bedroom, at work not so much. Some are offended by others that talk too much trash, it can make a man seem aggressive, overly so, and a woman seem common. I’m one to talk, I’ve always had a salty mouth and since I got into this line of work it’s even more so. My mom has said I talk like a longshoreman more than once! Oh well, at least I work from home and the cats don’t seem to mind too much, so I’m not offending too many people and as I said many clients like it. Even ask for it, they like to hear me say the naughty words as well, seems hot to them to get a lady to say words perhaps their wife or girlfriend will not.

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Submit To Me!

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What it is about submission that is so arousing? It seems especially to be so for ones that had a background of abuse or bullying. Which is ironic and seems masochistic, however many say it provides a chance for them to be the one being submissive again-yet on their terms. I hate to admit it, but I believe this is actually true. It doesn’t seem to make sense to want to relieve such mental, sometimes also physical pain and especially degradation, yet it can be so intense it’s remarkable.

People can be very complex creatures and the things that they should avoid they sometimes seek out. We are sometimes attracted to people that are very wrong for us that we should totally stay away from, they are in fact a drug to us. Ones in downright physically abusive relationships are the extreme case of this, they have taken things too far entirely and for women attracted to abusive men, they are in serious denial and need help. I do know what it’s like to be attracted to ones not good for us, it’s not a healthy situation at all. But we go to them like moths to a flame at times.

Hopefully most into domination and submission can keep things at a healthy level and keep such attractions and games to the bedroom, and not let it spill over into our lives. Some can be very submissive in the bedroom and yet be the total opposite in all other areas of their lives, which is much healthier. Like the cops and doctors going to a dominatrix on their own time, then they go back to their dominant selves once they leave the dungeon.

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Sexual Tourism

sex tourism

Sexual tourism takes a few different forms. Firstly, people think many times that when they are away from home and far away that all accountability is gone, so they may behave in a way they never would at home. Some men that are child predators will go to countries like Thailand and try and have sex with very young prostitutes, children really, since they feel they are out of reach of the laws of their own country. They go to poverty stricken lands that exploit people and break the law. It’s quite despicable.

Then you have ones that just behave differently when they know their friends and family back home will have no clue of what they are up to. My mom was a travel agent and would often tell me of middle aged single women that would return year after year to the same resorts in the Dominican Republic or Mexico and had men there they had sexual relationships with, and they would give these men, nothing more than paid companions or gigolos really, they’d give them cash to fix their cars, buy them clothes, all in exchange for sex with these men, sad really.

Many women wouldn’t get involved with a black guy for a boyfriend in their everyday lives around possibly disapproving family and friends, but go down to Jamaica for a week on spring break, and they’d turn into big, black cock lovers and live out their fantasies undeterred by watchful eyes of relatives, etc. I’ve also read articles interviewing these men, and they seem to find easy pickings among the middle aged and plus sized set that may be hurting for attentions at home, and they figure they can fuck these lonely old maids and maybe get a few hundred bucks from them, it’s beyond pitiful really.

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