So This Is Love

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When does a girlfriend experience caller cross the line? Sometimes a caller looking for this type of experience is a lonely individual seeking an online girlfriend of sorts. It all starts out innocently enough, but sometimes the caller can become too wrapped up in the girl he calls. Many times these “relationships” do not end well. They often end when the man realizes he will not ever really be getting to meet the girl they are talking to.

Has a girl ever met one of her callers and actually had a relationship? Yes, it does happen, but is usually not a good idea, since the men usually are more in love with the fantasy and not the real woman they are actually talking to. Reality simply can’t compare to fantasy, and things can quickly fall apart when they realize it’s just never going to be as they imagine. Some go so far as to talk marriage and engagement rings and it gets to a ridiculous level. The callers can also meet someone in their real lives and no longer need the girl they have so been depending on and things dissolve, but when the real life one dissolves, they can and do return to their phone girlfriends.

Many girls don’t like these types of calls since they can be emotionally draining, and they really can be, but if you can tolerate it, they can be good calls and callers to have. Some get all lovey dovey and like to exchange I love yous and sink into rich fantasy imaginings with the woman they consider their ideal love partner. They don’t like reality, they live for the high of their fantasies they can indulge of marriage and a life together and when that crumbles in their mind they often cannot bear to even talk to the girl anymore knowing they will never have her. Handle these ones with kid gloves. You can even get caught up yourselves and get feelings for them, not often, but it can happen and often we fall into the same trap, they can’t live up to our expectations either and it doesn’t end well.

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I Love My Sister In Law

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How many guys do I talk to that are lusting after their wife’s sister? I cannot even count. More seem to for some reason want the wife’s sister than their brother’s wife. I am not sure why, but I have seen that be the case most times. Many have fantasies where they are fucking the wife and her sister together as well. Many also want the mom of their wife, they just want to do them all and are often so enthralled with them that they are stealing panties and masturbating with them.

Many cultures allow for one to marry the sister of their wife or brother if the wife or brother passes away, a few other cultures frown upon that which seems insane as they are not blood related, so there really should not be any problem with them getting together if that’s what both of them are wanting. The desire to have the sister of the wife is a strong one I have found, and can go back decades depending on how long they have been married. I can think of one client of mine that has been obsessed with the wife of his sister for decades, always talking about her and how much he wants her yet how he will never have her.

He says there’s two women in this world that he loves and will never have, her and me, the silly fool, yet he already has a wife that he runs around on. He even has threesome fantasies about him and the two of us together serving and pleasing him. The threesome fantasy of the wife and sister or wife and her mother is very much alive and well. They always want what they cannot have.

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Body Hair And Odors

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I’ve heard of guys into hairy pussies, and the other day one called into not only hairy pussies but hairy armpits as well. Not being a fan of body hair, I cannot possibly understand the appeal of it, but there are ones out there that do prefer the natural look and if that’s body hair, some love it. There’s no excuse for it in my opinion, it only takes a few minutes to shave literally, soap and razors are cheap, I just don’t understand why anyone would want this travesty when it’s so easily removed.

The body’s natural odors would certainly be held by the pubic hair and underarm hair. Now to the cave man, this was appealing, but we’ve become a bit more refined since then and odors are no longer appealing to the majority of us, yet there’s always some throwbacks that are turned on by things like this. Even with shaving, odors can be strong, with hair even more so. Some call and want to discuss body odors they find appealing, like foot and shoe callers very frequently desire to smell feet that have been in boots or shoes all day and are ripe, or one man calls that’s into stinky asses after a sweaty workout.

Some into the body hair thing just like the look of it, they don’t even need to be near the woman to smell them, just the sight of the hair alone drives them wild. Some want the full on growth, others just want the stubble of 3-4 days and it is enough to turn them on. But hairy porn is most definitely a niche out there in the internet. I know the shaved look is fairly recent in the last 20 years, but it was a good development in the development of grooming.

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Please Spank Me!

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Spanking and the fetish with it usually has roots that go back to our childhoods, since well, that’s when people usually get spanked. In schools in the past it was an accepted form of corporal punishment along with a strap across the hand. The thought of a school administering physical punishments is abhorrent to me, it doesn’t really seem the place even in families, but an occasional spanking isn’t going to hurt a kid too bad, but in no way should it be a school’s place to do that.

There were so many spankings administered in previous generations in school it has a deep seeded root in the minds of my men and took sexual hold of them and to this day even though they are adults it arouses them and they crave to be spanked as they were back then. Many even seeking out paid Mistresses to do the job. It never ceases to amaze me how many call that want to be spanked rather than doing the spanking themselves. It seems more natural for a man to spank a woman than a man to get spanked by a woman, even if light and playful. I can imagine getting spanked, but I sure can’t imagine being the one doing it, yet it’s so common for callers to ask for and it’s even a specialty of mine, I’ve had sore hands some days from so much hand clapping at times!

Silly boys…They want birthday spankings, spankings by celebrities, many like to go back and talk about mommy and how she spanked them, especially if she caught them jerking off when they were kids. It had a real effect on them. Parents have no idea the long lasting effects of what they might consider a fairly small disciplinary action and how it can color their child’s sexuality for decades to come.

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If Rape is Inevitable Enjoy It

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I well recall the horror I felt when a woman I knew said years ago in all seriousness, “If rape is inevitable, enjoy it.” You can’t imagine anyone saying such a thing. The taboo of sexual assault is sadly an all too real reality for many women. There is a little discussed situation that arises in up to 20% of rape victims. They have an orgasm. When rape victims experience an orgasm during their attack, they actually statistically have a harder time getting past the experience than ones that did not. They feel guilty sometimes, they question if they in fact invited the attack at times in the aftermath of their recovery.

The fact is physical stimulation during rape or childhood molestation can indeed bring about an orgasm against their will. Your body truly can have a mind of its own and there’s nothing you can do to stop it. Thankfully I have no first hand experience with this, but I read enough about women that did, and the shame they felt. Many even feel the 20% is under reported due to the shame, that if they told people they orgasmed during the attack, they wouldn’t be believed that the entire attack was against their will in the first place.

Biologically it may have its roots in our genes from the cave man days. Back in the Neanderthal days, it wasn’t all romance and Valentine’s like romance and love can be made out to be today. Sexual encounters were often brief and brutal, and it’s been proven that orgasms aid in conception. The contractions suck up the sperm more so than if a woman didn’t orgasm. These physical reflexes we have no control over have very deep roots indeed. I can’t imagine what it must be like to be victimized physically, and to have your body betray you in a way as well.

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