World of Sexual Taboos

Getting Personal

Posted on October 21, 2013 by Sharon

A taboo for many in the phone sex world is getting overly involved with clients. Some clients get very wrapped up in their fantasies and think they are falling in love with the girl they are talking to and not the real person behind that voice. And though more rare, operators can get overly involved with clients as well. One of the first other operators I talked to had only had two involvements with clients, one had gone very badly and the client she agreed to meet put her in the hospital for 6 weeks. The second one she ended up marrying.

So things do happen and lines do get crossed. Many companies don’t allow contact off site between clients and workers and I don’t agree with that, people are adults and should have the freedom to choose to play with who they wish without worrying about their job. It’s difficult when you find someone you like, and it’s rare, that you know they are off limits. When you pick up the phone and are right off the bat in an intimate conversation things can get heated and quickly.

Taking clients personal never seems to work out though. Once they get you for free on your own time you seem to lose the appeal for some reason, so it never seems to go the way you want it to. I guess people just do not value that which is free and you always think this client will be different. Most girls are so cold they wouldn’t let themselves fall for these guys anyway, but I guess there are some softies out there still.

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The Sweetest Taboo

Posted on October 14, 2013 by Sharon

Taboos vary a lot from culture to culture, what is fine in one may be punishable by death in others. I always recall laughing when a client said he wanted to talk about something really taboo, and I was getting ready to tell him another girl might be better for him, since I have limits. I asked him what he wanted to talk about before turning him away and he replied anal sex. That’s it? I said, anal? That’s the big taboo you wanted to talk about? Yup.

Well, I’m totally fine with taking about that and it’s certainly not breaking any rules. To him that was really taboo, nasty stuff. I thought he was going to start going on about animals or little kids or something equally horrible, but no, just anal. It always surprises me when some clients think they are so nasty yet in reality they are quite vanilla and they ask what kinds of things do I hear that makes me think they are vanilla, so I tell them some things ones ask for and some are equally shocked.

It’s all relative really. I think it’s sad some need keep things quiet if they want to avoid trouble. I just read the other day about how a man was stabbed and paralyzed in an attack because he’s openly gay. So sad people are injured and killed sometimes just for being themselves when they aren’t hurting anyone, such a sad thing one has to hide their true self or risk alienation or possible physical attacks.

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I Could Just Eat You Up!

Posted on October 7, 2013 by Sharon

To most people the thought of cannibalism is unthinkable, yet a fetish for some is called vore. One client I have been talking to has a fantasy about his mother consuming him, putting him on a spit roast, cooking him and then eating him, bite by bite, it’s quite odd. The entire fantasy he has is very odd, but this element is quite odd, and I don’t think I’ve ever talked to anyone that wants to be cooked and eaten before, let alone by mommy.

Some into vore don’t like to think about the chewing and biting, they just like to think about being swallowed whole, like ones that are into the giantess fetish, where they’d be candy sized, just popped into the mouth and swallowed whole kind of thing, but the whole prepared, cooked and chewed up takes it to a whole other level. People can say, “Oh, I could eat you up!”, in a playful, innocent way, but some literally do like to think about that.

Obviously unlike most fetishes, this is one that likely will never be lived out. Most will never be eating another human for real, but the appeal of thinking about is there for some into vore. As in carnivore. Would be pretty scary if people were actually living this one out and grabbing people and putting them on spit roasts! Perhaps people look at someone consuming them and taking them into themselves as a form of acceptance, stranger things have been thought of.

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Oreo Man

Posted on September 30, 2013 by Sharon

One of my racial humiliation callers calls himself “Oreo Man”, since he feels white on the inside but is black on the outside. The first time he called and mentioned racial humiliation I didn’t understand, since he sounded white, and I assumed he was Jewish or something, since once in a while you will get them as well for those types of calls where they wish to be degraded.

Most black guys have a voice that lets you know they are indeed black, but once in a while you get one that does not sound black. Either they say they were raised mostly around whites since they are only half black, or they were very well educated, or a few other reasons. Usually you can tell from the voice, so then he went on about this Oreo Man bit and I got it, the world sees him as black, but he feels white. Well as we all know he is not white and most people will not be treating him as such.

Must be difficult to feel you are one way yet people will treat you as another, same idea as transgendered people I’d imagine, they feel one way inside, but that is in fact the opposite of what they are and what others will be treating them as. Such an inner turmoil, and with seemingly no solution. He likes to be downgraded by a perfect Aryan Mistress that he’s not worthy to touch. Many seem to have this inner conflict about their race, all I can do is what they ask of me-make fun of them and downgrade them.

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Pussy Farts

Posted on September 23, 2013 by Sharon

While not quite as bad as the accidental fart in bed, “queefing”, rather a strange name to be sure, is a fart of a different sort. A pussy fart, a vaginal fart, and as the Brits call it, a “fanny fart”, since they call pussy ‘fanny’, not ass like the rest of us. Sexual activity, or in some cases yoga due to the strange positions one can get into, is air in the vagina that makes a farting noise while escaping. I’d imagine vigorous sex where it’s more forceful than usual would increase the chance of this happening.

Having not personally experienced this myself, I can’t really give a personal take on it or the embarrassment factor involved, but I’d not think it as bad as the other type of farting, since they are helping it along but fucking you too forcefully! The amount of air would be less due to the size of the vaginal cavity alone, nor would it smell, like the other kind. It’s been mentioned since the days of ancient Greece, so it’s by no means a new phenomena. People really need to get over these things, it’s just the way it is, but I can imagine it would be a bit embarrassing, as things always are when our bodies seemingly betray us at inopportune moments.

Like most things in life we have little choice but to accept it. There’s not really anything we can do to prevent this, it’s not like cutting down on gas producing foods like beans and cabbage will affect pussy farts, they will not, as it is not dietary related, it’s odd position and force related. Turn up the background music I guess and hope they don’t notice? Can’t hurt!