Many would consider sex with the handicapped a taboo subject, but they have sexual wants, desires and needs just like everyone else, and it can be difficult for some of them to express those needs. Many like to think of handicapped people as asexual, as in that they have no sexual thoughts or desires, but that’s simply not the case. Some men in wheelchairs are still able to get erections and enjoy orgasms.
For some that are more severely handicapped, they may not be able to masturbate themselves and some personal care workers will do it for them. This is a topic most do not like to think about or discuss. If they cannot do it themselves, they are glad to have the help, but no one wants to think about someone jerking off people in wheelchairs that are incapacitated. There’s many things to consider for handicapped people and sex, they may not be able to use the same kinds of birth control as non handicapped individuals and they can many times still get pregnant, they may not be able to insert diaphragms or put on condoms, or may have medical conditions that don’t allow them to use the pill. Sometimes two handicapped people that are a couple require a third person to help them, it seems a very embarrassing situation for all involved.
Handicapped individuals may have to use different positions to be more comfortable, or if the male can no longer get an erection, oral sex or hand jobs may have to suffice. If one partner becomes disabled while in a relationship, sometimes they like to watch their partner have sex with another person, not quite a cuckold relationship, but they can enjoy seeing their partner enjoy themselves and be a part of that. It has its challenges for sure, and not everyone would consider a relationship with a person that has a disability, but some can overlook it and deal with it.
