Removing The Shame From Masturbation

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For many people masturbation will always be taboo. Ones into religion will always be going on about how sex should ONLY be for procreative purposes and to touch yourself for pleasure is lustful and wrong. I was however glad to read recently that in the last few years, both England and the Netherlands have both come out with government sponsored programs to encourage the youth of the nation to masturbate at least once a day.

I was shocked to read they were both so forward with this plan, yet they realize it will likely cut down on teen pregnancy and possible date rapes to do so. I was thinking how in America this would never fly, way too much puritanical thought processes still in charge and Alabama still with sex toy laws on the books, yeah, not happening anytime soon in the States to have the government encouraging the youth of the nation to rub one out for the lowering of teen pregnancy rates etc. Makes sense, but would never happen. It was only in 1994 that Joycelyn Elders the Surgeon general of the United States was fired for wanting to promote teen masturbation in school sex education programs.

A woman ahead of her time. If only everyone was as practical thinking as she was. She too saw the benefit of it in the decreasing of riskier sexual behaviors that could lead to unwanted pregnancies and possible sexually transmitted diseases. It’s such a shame people don’t view a sex drive the same was as a drive to sleep or satisfy hunger. It’s a basic drive we have, and there’s no shame in satiating it. You don’t need to whip it out and jerk it on the mall bench, but there’s no shame in your own room or bathroom to deal with it. It’s a lot more accepted now that it was a few decades ago, but we still have a long way to go.

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Nyotaimori-Human Serving Platters

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The practice of Nyotaimori is basically using a body as a human serving platter, usually a woman, and usually for sushi. The pic shown is little desserts though. It is illegal in several countries due to sanitary concerns and some say it objectifies women. It certainly doesn’t look like a comfortable thing to be doing if you’re the one on the table.

Total stillness is required, imagine all the food going rolling off! Hope they don’t sneeze, that could be awkward. One of the many odd things out there involving the human body, using it like a furniture item. Some into BDSM are into the whole human furniture thing. I don’t think I’d feel very good about eating food that had been laid out on a person, lord knows about germs etc. Men though are likely so wrapped up in admiring their body, they likely aren’t worried about germs.

Someone on a forum board I am on is going to a party like this soon, so that’s what gave me the idea to write of it, the human serving platters like this are usually for dinner parties or specialty restaurants. Who knows, it would be different for sure. The stories and pics you could share on your social media pages, not many get invited to such a get together. I recall years ago reading about couples shoving food up the woman’s pussy and then eating it out. Seems messy and a precursor to a yeast infection to me, but I guess whatever floats your boat. I recall one couple having difficulties since they got an orange up the woman’s pussy then couldn’t get it out. So ones are experimenting with food out there.

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Ahh, The Smell Of Shoes!

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Men into foot fetish and shoe fetish may be similar, and even have both at times, but sometimes they are separate entities and the foot guys don’t care about shoes, and vice versa. The smell of stinky feet to most of us is something we literally turn our noses up at. Many times humor comes into it and we can think of occasions when it’s been joked about, so how can someone like the smell most of us dislike?

I can think of several funny foot odor stories. My mom’s former boss used to travel a lot by plane on trips and one time took his shoes off during a flight and someone complained to the flight attendant about the bad smell, so he had to put his shoes back on. My mom also has/had stinky feet, luckily not a trait I inherited, and sometimes animals will find the feet smells attractive and several of the cats we had over the years would curl up on her slippers with their faces resting in the stinkiest part and we always were shocked they’d like such a smell. A client of mine told me he combs yard sales for used slippers, I found this really gross, but he loves old stinky slippers so much, he actually looks for them and is willing to pay for them.

I’ve heard some men say the smell alone of a woman’s sweaty, stinky shoes can make them erect, no foot required, smell alone gets a rise out of them. For every body smell one of us finds disgusting or even just unpleasant, you can rest assured there are legions of ones out there as turned on by it as ones turned off.

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Spray Me Down!

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Well last week we had bodily fluids from her, this week from him. “Facials” are something many guys love to give, and we aren’t talking mud masks here. I’m talking blowing their hot, sticky, gooey load of jizz all over a girls face. Like an animal marking their territory so to speak. Men can be so simple at times! Very primal in their urge to mark what’s theirs and how. Like an animal marking its territory with its urine, some men like to spray a woman with their cum, visually to them it’s the same kind of game.

Some women I guess enjoy being cummed on and splattered with the cum of their men. I’d rather it inside in the pussy, where it belongs, but hey, that’s just me, everyone likes different things. As long as you have a partner that’s in agreement to what you want to do with your load, then have at it, I say! Enjoy your messiness together. Some guys are just obsessed with their own cum, licking it themselves, seeing how far they can shoot it, taking supplements to increase the volume. That’s the one that always gets me.

Do they seriously think we want MORE mess to deal with? Is it like their own personal firehose? I’ve talked to some guys that have had prostate surgery, and they still have orgasms, but do not shoot semen anymore. They say it still feels good dry, but different. I kind of doubt their ladies are complaining, either, but they get this idea in their head we want geysers of cum shooting out of their cocks and nothing less will do. Less mess is best, to me anyway!

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A Visit From Aunt Flo

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Many women do not wish to engage in sexual activity during that time of the month. Others don’t care, same goes for guys. Others long ago earned their red wings. Believe it or not some guys actually have a thing for doing it when the lady is bleeding. Even oral sex. I just wouldn’t feel fresh for that. A client I talked to a while ago said he would lick anything that came out of a woman and any man that wouldn’t wasn’t a real man. I appreciated his sentiment, but I can’t grasp the appeal of that.

He’s not the first to call with such an interest. As long as no cramps, I could go along. I can see a guy not wanting to get in the fray and get all yucky, but you can just shower after, or even do it in the shower, that’s the most practical. Blood clots on the tongue. I actually recall reading in a romance novel about that, it was the written version of “Endless Love” I read when I was quite young I believe. There’s worse body fluids guys are into than menstrual blood. Many religions consider sex during periods taboo, and many won’t even allow women to enter a church or a temple when they are bleeding, Lord, why not just send them to the caves like they did in ancient times, the unclean beasts!

For every bodily function, you can rest assured many are fetishizing it and dreaming and fantasizing about it and wanting to get into it, literally and figuratively. For some it relives cramps, for others doesn’t really do much either way. It usually always increases bleeding after an orgasm, since it increases uterine contractions and heavy bleeding usually lasts for hours afterwards. It all depends on what you’re willing to tolerate.

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