Some would be surprised men call up phone sex lines for general conversation, but some do. One last week called a couple of times for a few hours each time and we most talked about politics, immigration and serial killers. It was delightful to have engaging conversation that wasn’t sexual. Yes, we are phone sex operators and that is the reason 99% of men are calling is for masturbation encouragement and to talk about their fantasies.
Some need advice, some have problems and not any friends to talk to or family they aren’t close to and you are the one they reach out to. I love calls like this and wish I got many more of them. Talking and communicating are very important things for people to do and when some are socially awkward, these simple things can be for some people not so simple. Not everyone is going to want to sit in a coffee shop and strike up a conversation with a stranger at all hours, but it seems ok to many if they call someone up and talk to them that way even if they are paying just for casual and non sexual conversation.
Being a phone sex operator involves a lot more than just pure sex talk, some will reveal secrets and things to you they wouldn’t think of sharing with someone in their “real life”. It’s just too personal and uncomfortable and they would rather pay someone that acts like a therapist of sorts to them in a professional capacity. Ones that don’t call for that or that have never called at all cannot begin to understand the dynamics of such relationships over the phone, yet they do indeed exist.
