May I Call You A Cunt?

swearing

Swearing isn’t that big of a taboo really, yet to some men certain words act like absolute triggers. I think their mom’s must have told them certain words were absolute no no’s and that’s why they appeal is so great. Some like to call me names and ask before if it’s ok if they call me a cunt, I say sure, I’ve been called names and not paid for it, so knock yourself out.

Another man loves to hear the word fuck over and over as much as possible. He’s also into spanking, so I think when he was young, his mom might have spanked him for saying “bad words”. Words do have a power, when you think of someone that swears too much, like Ozzy Osbourne, that’s a bit much, every other word being that takes away the power and the effectiveness of a well placed powerful word and just makes them seem like a nit wit that can’t speak properly.

Swear words are usually fine in the bedroom, at work not so much. Some are offended by others that talk too much trash, it can make a man seem aggressive, overly so, and a woman seem common. I’m one to talk, I’ve always had a salty mouth and since I got into this line of work it’s even more so. My mom has said I talk like a longshoreman more than once! Oh well, at least I work from home and the cats don’t seem to mind too much, so I’m not offending too many people and as I said many clients like it. Even ask for it, they like to hear me say the naughty words as well, seems hot to them to get a lady to say words perhaps their wife or girlfriend will not.

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Submit To Me!

sub woman

What it is about submission that is so arousing? It seems especially to be so for ones that had a background of abuse or bullying. Which is ironic and seems masochistic, however many say it provides a chance for them to be the one being submissive again-yet on their terms. I hate to admit it, but I believe this is actually true. It doesn’t seem to make sense to want to relieve such mental, sometimes also physical pain and especially degradation, yet it can be so intense it’s remarkable.

People can be very complex creatures and the things that they should avoid they sometimes seek out. We are sometimes attracted to people that are very wrong for us that we should totally stay away from, they are in fact a drug to us. Ones in downright physically abusive relationships are the extreme case of this, they have taken things too far entirely and for women attracted to abusive men, they are in serious denial and need help. I do know what it’s like to be attracted to ones not good for us, it’s not a healthy situation at all. But we go to them like moths to a flame at times.

Hopefully most into domination and submission can keep things at a healthy level and keep such attractions and games to the bedroom, and not let it spill over into our lives. Some can be very submissive in the bedroom and yet be the total opposite in all other areas of their lives, which is much healthier. Like the cops and doctors going to a dominatrix on their own time, then they go back to their dominant selves once they leave the dungeon.

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Sexual Tourism

sex tourism

Sexual tourism takes a few different forms. Firstly, people think many times that when they are away from home and far away that all accountability is gone, so they may behave in a way they never would at home. Some men that are child predators will go to countries like Thailand and try and have sex with very young prostitutes, children really, since they feel they are out of reach of the laws of their own country. They go to poverty stricken lands that exploit people and break the law. It’s quite despicable.

Then you have ones that just behave differently when they know their friends and family back home will have no clue of what they are up to. My mom was a travel agent and would often tell me of middle aged single women that would return year after year to the same resorts in the Dominican Republic or Mexico and had men there they had sexual relationships with, and they would give these men, nothing more than paid companions or gigolos really, they’d give them cash to fix their cars, buy them clothes, all in exchange for sex with these men, sad really.

Many women wouldn’t get involved with a black guy for a boyfriend in their everyday lives around possibly disapproving family and friends, but go down to Jamaica for a week on spring break, and they’d turn into big, black cock lovers and live out their fantasies undeterred by watchful eyes of relatives, etc. I’ve also read articles interviewing these men, and they seem to find easy pickings among the middle aged and plus sized set that may be hurting for attentions at home, and they figure they can fuck these lonely old maids and maybe get a few hundred bucks from them, it’s beyond pitiful really.

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If I Can’t Have You, No One Will

i love you

Obsessive love is easy to understand for many of us. Certain people have a pull over us and drive us to do certain things we normally wouldn’t do. It seems more compelling when it’s a woman that is the obsessed party. The recent case in Arizona of the woman that stabbed her boyfriend 27 times and shot him has been very interesting. The passion to do so much, much more than was required to kill someone, that comes from either deep insanity or deep passion. If I can’t have you no one will kind of thinking.

Someone like that isn’t a threat to society at large, only to someone that arouses something in them and then doesn’t return those feelings of intensity. Not to say everyone with unrequited feelings is going to snap and kill the object of their affection, no, most will just feel bad for a few years and eventually get over it, some never get over it though and it stays with them their entire lives, that obsession for someone. Unrequited love is the strongest and lasts the longest it seems. It’s a sad state to be in, believe me, I know all too well.

However I was never driven to off them because I couldn’t have them. That kind of passion and obsession admittedly intrigues me a lot, the depth of the feelings. It’s an awful feeling to not be wanted back, no doubt about it. It’s so much more often men that turn to violence if a woman leaves, very seldom women, so when it is, it’s much more interesting and compelling.

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I Can’t Get No Satisfaction…

satisfaction-guaranteed

Some men should have a sign above their beds promising 100% satisfaction guaranteed. Sadly, they are few and far between. It really is a taboo in mine and many other women’s eyes if a guy leaves us unsatisfied in bed. If a guy is selfish in the sack, I think he’s a total loser, a nothing, selfish prick. Some are like that for sure. Ones that will hang up on you during phone sex and not care about you cumming. Once they have cum, it’s over for them. Anyone else be damned.

They haven’t learned the fact that if you keep them satisfied they will keep coming back for more. But for selfish jerks that may just see a girl once then move onto the next, they obviously just don’t care, since they won’t have to see them again. I’d say these types would be better off with an escort, but these types would also be the types to not ever pay for sex, more than a few drinks in any case. They are the type that buys you dinner and expect you to put out for the privilege.

They are the ones that LOVE blow jobs but wouldn’t bother going down on the lady, nothing in it for them to do so. Them getting oral and fucking is about all you will get from them. Some cultures seem to have more of this type of men than others. Many will say they would never go down on a woman, but they expect blow jobs. Ones from India and the Middle East seem to have this mindset more than ones from other places I have spoken to, I have heard it many, many times from both. But then both treat women as second class citizens, so it’s not any great surprise to anyone, I am sure.

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