Asexuality In A World Of Promiscuity

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Sex has all sorts of different spectrum’s to it. Some are sex addicts, some can maintain a normal sex life, and others are what they call asexual. As in no interest in sex at all. With as many people around as there are, I guess it’s really not surprising some would be devoid of sexual desire. A small percentage of humanity for sure, but it’s still there. Having had a high sex drive , it seems perplexing to me some don’t have that, but to them it would be just as surprising to have one I guess.

Not all people grow up and get married, or have children, so it’s not surprising people can be different in their needs and wants to do with sex. Talking to as many people as I do, it’s easy to see the different kinks some have. Some want it as dirty and debased as you could imagine, others are so vanilla, they want the mildest of the mild and would be offended by a lot of what other callers get off on. Since most of us have a sex drive, it’s easy to see how ones that do not can be ostracized and made fun of since they aren’t like everyone else.

I can’t say any clients have called with this, since obviously they’d not be calling if they had no sex drive. Some callers have certainly called just to talk and not masturbate, but they have all had sex at some point, or even the virgins that call would like to have sex, they just haven’t met the right person yet, or have been too shy, or have some physical issue that has prevented it, but they have sexual feelings. It seems many times you cannot win. Gay people can get made fun of, overly promiscuous people can be taunted, and even ones that have no sex at all are also made to feel like outcasts.

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To Cut Or Not To Cut?

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The argument for circumcision is a common one these days. Most women do not like the look of an uncut cock, yet the uncut one is the natural one, the way it was meant to be. Recently in some forums for other operators there was mention of this and nearly all the women agreed, they do not like the uncut ones and some had bad experiences with uncut men and odors, and cleanliness issues.

In an ideal world everyone would keep themselves clean enough that it wasn’t an issue, but in reality, a lot of people simply are not clean about themselves and anything that will make it worse, will, so maybe getting snipped is an easier way to cut down on that problem. It varies from region to region and country to country what is normal and acceptable there. There can be many mixed feelings about altering something from its natural state. You wouldn’t think of doing this to animals, yet for people it’s fairly common in some areas of the world. There doesn’t seem to be too many complications from it, but some question the need for it at all.

It was other than for religious reasons done to desensitize the head of the penis and reduce the possible chances of masturbation, which until recently was a very bad habit even in dictionaries labeled as self abuse, and not a normal, natural release. Foods were invented to prevent the evils of masturbation, from Graham crackers to Kellogg’s Corn Flakes. Absurd but true.

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Risky Sex

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Some guys want a cuckold situation so much, they are willing to pay for it. Without even bothering to tell their woman. I was shocked when I heard recently of a guy that wanted to watch his girlfriend get fucked by other guys so badly, he told her he was having his “friends” come over to play with her, but he’d actually posted an ad on Craigslist and was taking money for it, without sharing this with his girlfriend. One of the guys that paid slipped up and told her and she was in horror and shock.

When some guys want something, nothing will deter them from getting it, no matter who might get hurt or be in danger, their libido takes precedence over all else. Ones that are posting ads for themselves on Craigslist, or going to glory holes and having random dangerous, unprotected sex with strangers, then going home to their wives and exposing them to lord knows what. I hear about this a lot more often than anyone would think, and it’s horrifying to think people are so selfish, yet it’s going on-a lot.

Horniness can often make common sense go out the window it seem and leave innocent victims in its wake. Many guys figure what they don’t know can’t hurt them, so go ahead and do as they want. Risk can be very exciting to some people, the riskier the better. It’s one thing to have sex outside where the neighbors might see you, another to expose someone to a fatal disease. Different kinds of risks for different people, I guess.

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Ohhhh, Panties!

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If there’s one item of women’s clothing men are bonkers over, it’s panties. How many guys call up and ask what color panties am I wearing, do I like thongs, do I masturbate while wearing them. They are nearly obsessed with them and often steal ones from women they are around. Not all men of course are like this, but ones that into panties are really into them as a rule.

Some will even call up and wish to discuss brand names of panties and want you to say the names back to them! Sniffing the ill gotten gains from neighbors, mother’s in law, sister’s in law, real moms, real sisters, roommates, you name it, some have taken them. Filling them with cum as they masturbate into them. Some callers are not only into women’s panties, but men’s underwear as well. There’s a caller of my own I watch on cam and he puts on underwear fashion shows for me of his large collection of groovy patterned underwear. He loves wearing them under his clothes and people not knowing about the odd patterns he’s got going on under there.

Another caller loves to have long and involved discussions about men’s underwear. It’s odd the things that turn some on, panties are pretty tame for fetishes, but I guess knowing that the flesh of the person’s naughty bits is being cradled in those panties or underwear is enough to send them over the edge into a sexual frenzy and back again. Its the most sexual garment there is, the most intimate and personal,a and that’s the reason it drives them crazy, it’s covering the parts they wish to see the most!

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It’s Raining, It’s Pouring – Golden Showers

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What is it about golden showers that so excite some men? The naughty, dirty, forbidden idea of it? I read on a guys profile page once, filthy isn’t naughty, it’s just gross. I certainly understand that way of thinking, but some find the filthy very appealing indeed. It’s certainly not everyone’s cup of tea, but it’s not harmful, illegal or hurting anyone, but yes, to most people will be thought of as kind of gross.

This is waste to be flushed away in a toilet bowl you wash your hands (hopefully) after wiping yourself, yet ones into it are not even thinking about germs, they want to revel in it, be covered in it, hell, some even wish to drink that golden nectar. No, it likely won’t hurt you any, just back to the gross factor. For ladies the way our plumbing is built an orgasm does feel better on a full bladder, which of course can lead to dribbles and leaks and just not worth it, so likely just best to go to the washroom beforehand so as orgasm approaches you don’t wet the bed.

Many guys into the golden showers though wasn’t nothing more than to lay in a tub and have you squat over them and pee on them. Some even going to escorts for the experience they can’t bring themselves to ask of their wife or girlfriend since they know the answer will be a solid, NO. I guess as long as everyone is into it, hey, go for it. I just don’t want to use the bathtub at your house that doubles as a toilet.

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