World of Sexual Taboos

For All The World To See…….

Posted on November 21, 2011 by Sharon

It is taboo to have sex in public now, isn’t it…..They Do have public indecency laws after all so people aren’t fucking in the streets like animals, as some would decidedly do if the risk wasn’t there.

How many times a year do you read about some couple getting busted for fucking on a balcony of a hotel or an apartment building and many onlookers. Many have the exibitionistic streak in them, there’s no doubt about that.

A parking lot security guard once told me he was always chasing away couples that were fucking standing up against one of the brick walls in the parking lot, and there were used condoms around to prove it on the ground. Pity the person who had to dispose of them..Ick.

The thrill of being seen, of getting caught is half the fun for some of these people. Furtively having hurried sex so you get to cum before someone happens on by and sees you. Then you have the ones that do want to be seen and are doing it totally shamelessly right out in the open without a care in the world. It truly takes all kinds.

I have asked several of my chat guys where was a risky place they masturbated, and many gave public answers. Under a coat on a bus, under a blanket on a plane, a few have done the deed in libraries. There’s a lot of public sex going on out there! They are around if you look, believe me.

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Stripping

Posted on November 14, 2011 by Sharon

Some consider stripping a taboo behavior. It has been around since the beginning of the 1900’s as we know it, and centuries before in one way or another, belly dancing as an example of another form of public dancing.

Men are very visual by nature and especially ones that do not have wives or girlfriends, going to a strip club is the only way they will be seeing a live woman in the nude. Live is always better than porn. They can certainly see lots of porn for free online, but a real, live nude moving woman, they may have to go see a dancer at a strip club to have a good look at one.

Most people at that time preached modesty, and it was considered scandalous for ones to be taking their clothes off in public for the sexual entertainment of usually drunk men. Most stripping was done in bars. Burlesque began in music halls, but the nude dancing we know and think of today began in bars, and really began to flourish during the first world war with he randy soldiers that wanted a good time that were far from home.

During the time of the sexual revolution, the stripping became more and more sexual, evolving from mainly topless, to full nude and the invention of the stripper pole took things to a whole new and acrobatic level. Many burlesque dancers were not thin or toned like dancers of today. They were womanly and voluptuous, and would never be able to heft themselves around like the dancers of today do.

Lap dancing is another off shoot that stripping has provided. Private dances and backroom shenanigans have always existed and many strippers do a lot more than strip if the price is right. It’s mainly a cash business and has a lot of shady individuals involved in it, including many times involvement with drugs and organized crime. Many porn stars are also involved as traveling strippers to help build fanbases.

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Up Yours!

Posted on November 6, 2011 by Sharon

One taboo activity that gay and straight people both engage in is fisting. It was considered illegal to even show in porn. The stretching of the vagina and rectum is considered where the pleasure comes from, not so much the moving in and out motions.

It can be a risky activity unless one is gentle and uses lots of lubrication, since the tissues in the areas involved are easily damaged, and special care must be taken.

Some people fist themselves during masturbation, thought they have to be fairly thin and flexible to do so. It’s usually done by another person.

There are plenty of sex toys for fisting enthusiasts, that are molded off of real arms. They are big! I couldn’t believe some of the things I saw online, so there is a market for these things, and this is an interest shared by many. Some even use bottles for their fisting fun. You could get plenty stretched out from using a bottle on yourself for sure.

I have found men from England seem to be into this more than North Americans from calls that I have personally taken where they wanted to discuss this topic.

It’s not for everyone, but there are ones that derive enjoyment from fisting. There are many enthusiast sites online for just about every fetish out there, including this one. So get your lube out, not water based lube since it’s quickly absorbed by the body, and maybe some latex gloves and if you dare, explore the fetish of fisting to see if you like how it feels.

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Jungle Fever

Posted on October 31, 2011 by Sharon

Many look at interracial relationships as a taboo. Well, not so much now, but only until very recently have many peoples outlook on this changed.

Even ones that are concerned with appearing politically correct, if it came right down to it, would they be fine if their white daughter brought home a black instead of a white?

Some women prefer black men, since black men can exhibit a confidence some white men can be lacking. And of course there’s the thought that black men have higher sex drives and larger penises to please a woman with. Some white men are looked on as weak. How many white men are wanting to see their women fucked by big, huge, black dicks? According to my callers I get, a good number. I have yet to talk to a black man that wants to see his woman fucked in front of him by a white guy though……

Some white men are just in awe of the physical power some black men have. The sexual prowess. They find it very intimidating, yet arousing to witness.

Many black women are non too thrilled to see the black men so taken wit the white women, since who does that leave them with? It is a point of contention for many black women that white women have taken over “their men”.

Some people will also just be the type to always be attracted to that with is sort of forbidden, something that will attract attention of others and make them be in the spotlight. That is just some peoples nature.

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Swingers

Posted on October 22, 2011 by Sharon

Many look on the swinging lifestyle as a taboo activity. Many couple have issues with cheating of course, but most that run around on their partner do so behind their partners back. Honestly, that’s the way I’d prefer to do it. I’d rather keep that as my own business, not do it in front of a partner.

Ones into swinging are actually being more honest, doing so with their partners permission. But too much honesty isn’t for everyone. Sometimes the illicit, secret fun is half the fun of an affair. If you’re doing it in front of your partners, that aspect of sneaking around on the sly and having your naughty little secret is gone.

Swinging has been around for centuries of course, mainly among intellectuals, and in North America became more widespread on of all places, military bases and spread outward. Since many military men faced an uncertain future due to combat and accidents, they became closer than the average co workers and many times pledged to take care of each others wives should they not return from war. So many military couples bonded as close friends and took things to a deeper level. I can understand how if you never knew if you’d be returning from a mission, perhaps you’d be more apt to engage in pleasures you otherwise might not.

The advent of the birth control pill also gave people a freedom from worry over pregnancy that made them more adventuresome.

There are many swinging clubs today, and many require full blood workups to join ensuring the ones joining are disease free, and regular testing is required as well. Society’s love of monogamy, even though not everyone practices it, makes people that openly swing a bit taboo according to many.