Some men think paying for sex, whether it’s phone sex or escorts is something they would never stoop to. I have talked to countless guys that feel this way. Countless frustrated guys with an over abundance of pride it seems. Many that pay just look at it as an entertainment expense, or a hobby expense. Going to concerts and movies and live theater costs money after all, these are entertainment expenditures. If you have a hobby like rock climbing or skiing, all that sporting equipment costs money.
Sex is a hobby and entertainment, so many understand this and view it the same way. Phone sex enhances ones masturbation, and if you have no girlfriend or wife or fuck buddy, an escort can give you that skin to skin contact that you have been craving so badly. Some just honestly do not want the time or energy or drama that a relationship provides, so they look at various paid sexual encounters as a lot cheaper than dating and none of the emotional stress. They can hang up when they are finished and walk out the door if it’s an escort.
I always recall with great amusement a quote from Charlie Sheen, himself a great connoisseur of escorts, “I didn’t pay them for sex, I paid them to leave.” A great many men could understand this sort of mentality. Phone sex is a wonderful, happy break in their day, an interaction with a lady they might not otherwise have in their life, but once they cum, it’s “Bye”. Ah men, to be so simple and uncomplicated.