Something I hear more and more on calls is guys wanting their gals to do them with a strap on. Many guys are into anal play, and I see on sex toy websites the growing collections of toys for men up their backsides, from vibrating eggs, to butt plugs, anal beads, to all kinds of dildos and strap ons of varying sizes.
Most men that call do not share this interest with their partner, as they know it would upset them, or creep them out and there’s no way in hell their partner would be willing to use a strap on on them, so they just experiment alone with their anal desires. Many worry they would appear “gay” to their partners, or in fact they have a level of homophobia themselves and worry what liking this means for them as a man. It’s very ingrained in our culture that anal in a no no, so that taboo is very deep indeed.
I recall once a guy calling and asking if it was ok to talk about a taboo topic, and as the rules at the place he called are strict, I asked what it was he was looking for, and it was anal sex-that’s it! I said, yes that was well within the rules and I was ok talking about it, to him this seemed so taboo, he was worried about it being ok to talk about. This is the level of concern some men have in bringing the topic up with their ladies. So you can imagine the worry if they were to ask their lady to put on a strap on and fuck them with it. Most will not take the chance.
