Erotic Spanking

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There seems to be no end to the callers that are seeking to be spanked, whipped, flogged or paddled. I can hear them spanking themselves with either their hand, belts, the back of hairbrush handles, all kinds of tools. The rubber soles of slippers, that makes a good smack. Others enjoy to hear me clap my hands and simulate the sounds for them. Not many wish to spank me, it’s usually the other way around.

Punishment for indulging in something sexual and getting caught as youngsters, like masturbating, is very often when this started for many of them. Others were just getting punished at schools back when corporal punishments were common and they were coming into their puberty years and the incidents got intertwined, especially if the ones administering the spankings were females. Things were a lot more strict in schools decades ago, so I find ones into spanking fetish are usually older, not common to hear from ones in their 20’s and 30’s into this, the older they are, the more common it is.

It’s just a more permissive society overall, though of course you will always find strict religious nuts out there doing things like this, but spankings were just much more common at home and school decades ago than now. Now it’s viewed as abuse and not tolerated the same way as it was. Consensual spanking among partners is obviously fine, but the root of it usually are coming from past punishments. I think light spanking could be in good fun if everyone wanted it, and you liked being called a bad girl, playfulness is always a good thing.

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Nylons On Your Boyfriend

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Now what doesn’t say “man” like a guy in pantyhose? So many guys calling that are obsessed with pantyhose. Either me wearing them, or just as likely, themselves wearing a pair as they masturbate. Personally, I always found them restrictive and hot and not at all fun to wear, I hated them, and wore them everyday for years when I was in highlights since I preferred skirts to pants. Now, I wear my skirts so long and with boots, so knee highs more than suffice. I’ve yet to in the 6 years I’ve been an operator talk to a guy with a knee high fetish!

Many guys love the feeling of the nylons against their cocks. I can understand the ones that like a woman in stockings and a garter belt, if the lady has a sexy figure, it is a hot look for sure. Some are so into pantyhose, they want to even fuck the woman while wearing them, either them wearing them, or the lady, just tear a hole and you’re good to go. I’d want skin to skin contact, but to these fetishists, nylons are the hottest things going.

It’s a harmless fetish, no doubt about it. Not gross, or weird, or distasteful. Not very masculine though if they want to wear them. Many women wouldn’t be able to handle a guy that wanted to wear pantyhose themselves prancing around in them before or even during sex. I guess that’s something you’d have to come to terms with, if it was ok with you.

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Foot Fantasy

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The most popular body part to fetishize is the foot. The sometimes stinky, sometimes ugly, foot. I always say I could cure any man’s foot fetish if he looked at my poor mom’s feet. He’d not only be cured, he’d be sick at the thought of it ever again! Not too many guys fantasize about getting foot jobs from gnarled, hammertoed, bunion covered swollen feet, but who knows. I’m convinced everyone has their fans.

I’ve heard of guys that like everything from bad breath to farts blown right in their face, so maybe there are deformed foot fetishists out there hunting for the gnarliest, stinkiest feet in existence. Wouldn’t surprise me a bit. In times of great sexually transmitted diseases growing to epidemic proportions, the appeal of the foot has grown even higher. You’d think a hand job would hold more appeal than feet, but apparently not. Some are just into the shoes and boots rather than the actual feet and the smells that go along with them.

Ones will call and want to talk about licking the cheese between my toes. I don’t even want to know how long without showering that would take to appear. Others want to toe suck and worship the foot like some kind of Goddess onto itself. Pretty colored toenails are also a part of the fantasy for many men, as I’m frequently asked what color polish I’m wearing. I always just say red. In reality, the cats don’t care I’m not wearing any and no one else would see. So let them have their fantasies about my bunion covered, broken toed foot that they are imagining looks right out of a designer shoe catalog. They will be none the wiser. One poor client though he desperately wanted pics of my feet, I did happen to have polish on at the time, so broken toes and bunions and all, I sent them and he said they were lovely. I guess the poor soul must need glasses, but it was kind of him to say, regardless.

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Silence On The Phone

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When most call for phone sex there is of course a back and forth conversation and banter that occurs. Not all men are able to talk though, for different reasons. Some have roommates or wives nearby and they will be heard if they talk in anyway, so they will call up and message as I speak back to them. I don’t mind silent callers, but I know some girls don’t like them and dealing with them.

Different callers may be calling from who knows where, I’ve had ones call from a car parked in a parking lot or on the street, in a backyard, all kinds of unusual and expected places, driving even which concerns me about their safety and the safety of others if they are on the road and what happens when they cum, will they lose control, etc.? Some are just shy and not really able to talk comfortably. One asked if I’d let him reply with taps on the phone which was a bit too weird for me, this is phone sex, not Morse code sex! Imagine Morse code on the phone via taps, very odd indeed.

Certain callers are unique and have different needs and fetishes we can help them with that are not the everyday situations we deal with. The ability to be flexible and think on your feet is important, since some callers will indeed throw you for a curve ball in their needs and wants. Some will message and say they want to just hear me get off, well that’s not an option and I explain that, some ask for all kinds of things one would not expect.

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Choke And Stroke

A lot of people seek to enhance their masturbation experience with the dangerous practice of auto erotic asphyxiation. Strangling themselves to cut off the blood supply to the brain to produce a feeling of lightheadedness. Many die every year doing this, most are alone masturbating and it goes too far. Some have even been charged with murder when consensual sex has included this type of activity and the person doing it didn’t stop soon enough.

Ones are not always using a noose like belt or rope around the neck for this, many times they’ve put plastic bags over their faces so they are breathing in their own carbon dioxide. It’s said to produce a high as good as being on cocaine, so it becomes addictive. Most that indulge are males, as most that do in risky behaviors are male. Less than 1% that die in accidental deaths that result from this sort of breath play are females. I’ve only ever done a couple of phone sex calls with callers that did this and I was nervous for them and they swore they were fine, they were experienced and knew when to stop.

It really is a very serious sort of play to be doing when the consequences of it going wrong are literally death. Is any orgasm worth dying for? I’d think not. Orgasms on their own are pretty great if you ask me, no point in risking your life for a more intense one by trying to choke yourself when you stroke one out. You can’t stop people from doing things that to them feel good, so ones will continue to die as a result.

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