Crossdressing

There seems to be an over abundance of crossdressers this week that I have crossed paths with for some reason. One called the other night wearing a wig and a black velvet dress, saying he often loved to rub himself all over the velvet even when I told him how difficult it was to clean. He didn’t care.

Another regular client last night that I spoke to, and have for many months for the very first time told me how he has pictures of himself in dresses and lingerie and how years ago in his youth when he was thinner had actually gone to the beach in a woman’s bikini but put his shorts back on when he got made fun of by some other beachgoers.

One the night before him told me of his little crossdressing secret and he could hear the disdain in my voice. He told me to be honest and tell him what I’d do if I had a boyfriend and came in and saw him wearing a pair of my panties. I said he wouldn’t be my boyfriend for long, that I could not handle such a revelation and I would not stand for it in a relationship. He didn’t understand why, I said it was just not something I’d be willing to tolerate. I realize in the scheme of fetishes it’s pretty harmless, but not for me. He was going on about how I wouldn’t even talk to him for money, I said it was fine, he retorted I thought he was a freak. I said I never said that, but he was insulted and hung up. I can live without him, I really don’t want to deal with them, sorry…….

 

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Virginity

The taboo of premarital sex and sex entirely is very old. Most religions advocate and find it ideal for people to remain virgins until marriage. In ancient Rome, the Vestal Virgins had powers and were committed to 30 years of celibacy usually from ages 10-40. They had rights other citizens did not and their word was taken without question. If they were found to have broken their vow, which was rare, the punishment was being buried alive with a few days of food and water. I’d say that’s good incentive to wait. Once the period of 30 years was over, they were retired and allowed to live a normal life, get married, etc. But if they broke those vows, what a grim end awaited them.

Even in today’s world, in many Muslim countries, if a girl is found to not be a virgin, even by rape against her will, she could very well be subject to an “honor killing”, where it is viewed she has brought such shame upon her family, their good name can only be restored if she is killed. In the Western societies, virginity does not have the stranglehold it once did, and it’s viewed as merely a right of passage into adulthood and the honor of ones family is not at stake if it is lost.

Yet it’s always the women’s virginity in question here, it’s the one that everyone is concerned with. Males are expected to have sex, either with older women, widows, or prostitutes and no one questions their morality or calls them sluts for doing so. The double standard reigns supreme in the world of virginity. It’s prized and desired in females, yet in males it is something to be discarded as fast as they can.

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Cheers

Drinking blood may seem ghoulish, is ghoulish, but there are some that incorporate this into their sexual repertoire. In recent years vampires and Dracula have become romanticised and not feared as the demons they once were perceived to be. Hollywood is pretty much responsible for this with all their vampire love stories and the like.

Even ones not into falling in love with vampires, can see the appeal of them. The youth that never fades, the dark and mysterious way they have about them. Some have actually crossed that line and turned to actual blood consumption. They feel it gives them a closer bond with their partner to literally be taking a part of their essence into them. (Cum would do the same thing and be a lot less icky…)

For many centuries people believed blood had  a power, and it does, it is the very essence that keeps us alive. Queens bathed in the blood of virgins in the hopes of the youth being drawn into them. So of course many have gotten the idea that the liquid of life force would extend their own lives and their own youth if they actually consumed and drank it.

Controlled cutting by certain people you are close to to feed off, it does happen. I find it beyond creepy and weird, but there are ones doing it. It usually is just within the couple, but sometimes small groups form and ones volunteer to be the ones fed off of, they are offering their blood to the feeders. There are many little odd subcultures out there, blood drinkers among them. Cheers…….

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Sex Taboo

One thing I have noticed from chatting with a number of guys from India is how ironic it is that in India sex is a taboo. The country has over a billion people in it, so obviously they are doing it. The renowned Kama Sutra book of sexual positions is from India, so obviously the culture accepted at one point in time that sex was important and worth writing a book about that has been around for a very long time.

The lack of privacy astounds me when I talk to young men in their twenties that act as though they are ten years old. Lack of privacy for something as simple as masturbation is a real challenge. Door locks seem to be unheard of, I never heard of ones living that way that were legally adults.

It seems they are not even supposed to date or have anything to do with ones of the opposite sex, they seem to just sneak around and youngsters are kept in the dark about basic questions about sex and their own bodies.

Ignorance and curiosity can be a very bad combination. If ones are so kept in the dark they don’t even know about how pregnancies occur or diseases take  hold, how can they be expected to act responsibly? It is a very unusual culture, not as in your face as north American culture at all. Keeping ones in the dark is never a good idea and will only lead to heartaches for everyone involved.

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It Cuts Both Ways

 

A taboo to some is circumcision. It is having a modern backlash in its popularity as some find it a mutilating situation. Many started it for religious purposes. Jews and Muslims in particular use it, ironic since they are at war with each other, but both find this something to agree about. Ones say it is not something ones should be doing today, that it is obsolete and not required in any way. That in fact it does not always make things cleaner and is an unnecessary trauma to inflict on a newborn. 

It was done to reduce sexual pleasure, which is never a good thing, but it does look better to most people. So ones debate whether to continue doing this to male newborns. Rates of circumcision have been dropping globally for decades. If properly washed, there is no need for it to make cleanliness easier, but how many are diligent enough to actually cleanse themselves properly. I think most people are not clean by my standards, I doubt most shower everyday, so I can see that for most it’s likely a good idea, since most are not careful enough about their personal hygiene.

 I can understand both sides to the argument. It’s not right on one hand to cut somebody without their permission, a newborn cannot make a decision for themselves, it is being done on their behalf. There is a growing movement of grown men looking to “reclaim their foreskins” and doing weird things to get it back. I recall seeing a documentary on such a man that was having weights put on his penis to stretch the skin he had to become like the cut foreskin. Obviously if the head of the penis is covered, it will be more sensitive to feeling than one that has been exposed and that would reduce pleasure. There are arguments for both sides, I bet most grown men given the choice would not choose to have some skin removed. I asked a guy I talk with about this that is uncircumcised and he said no way would anyone be removing any of his skin.

 

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