Choke And Stroke

A lot of people seek to enhance their masturbation experience with the dangerous practice of auto erotic asphyxiation. Strangling themselves to cut off the blood supply to the brain to produce a feeling of lightheadedness. Many die every year doing this, most are alone masturbating and it goes too far. Some have even been charged with murder when consensual sex has included this type of activity and the person doing it didn’t stop soon enough.

Ones are not always using a noose like belt or rope around the neck for this, many times they’ve put plastic bags over their faces so they are breathing in their own carbon dioxide. It’s said to produce a high as good as being on cocaine, so it becomes addictive. Most that indulge are males, as most that do in risky behaviors are male. Less than 1% that die in accidental deaths that result from this sort of breath play are females. I’ve only ever done a couple of phone sex calls with callers that did this and I was nervous for them and they swore they were fine, they were experienced and knew when to stop.

It really is a very serious sort of play to be doing when the consequences of it going wrong are literally death. Is any orgasm worth dying for? I’d think not. Orgasms on their own are pretty great if you ask me, no point in risking your life for a more intense one by trying to choke yourself when you stroke one out. You can’t stop people from doing things that to them feel good, so ones will continue to die as a result.

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Keep That Cock In Lockdown

Some men that call for phone sex are unable to masturbate. It always sort of comes as a shock when I ask if they are touching themselves and they reply, “No, Mistress,”. I ask why and they tell me they have been caged, or rather their cocks have been caged. Sometimes by themselves, other times by a Mistress. Sometimes they have given the key to another to hold for them, since they know they themselves wouldn’t have the willpower to keep their hands off of themselves if they had access to the keys.

It used to be women were mostly the ones in chastity devices, and perhaps in some parts of the world they still are. I recall one day when six different men called in chastity devices, I couldn’t believe it, must have been the full moon, who knows, but there are ones wearing them. One said he was worried about the airport security as he was going on a business trip and didn’t want them to find out he was wearing one, but he said it was all plastic, so I doubted he’d run into such an embarrassing difficulty as this.

This is an extreme example of tease and denial, more like only denial. Some have told me they’ve been in chastity by their Mistress’s for upwards of three months without being allowed to orgasm. Some call and say they have been given a reprieve for the night and been unlocked, so I am their treat to enjoy themselves before being put back in the cock cage in the morning. Very interesting, these men so into self denial. One used to tell me how he’d love to lick my pussy as I dug cowboy boot spurs into his shoulders and back as he was wearing a cock cage. The crazy things men get off on…

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Let’s Order Up Some Fun

It’s funny how some men proclaim they’d never, ever pay for sex. That they don’t have to. I guess some are lucky enough they haven’t been in that situation and can get laid on demand. Many however are not in that group, and if they want to get laid, or have phone sex or cam sex, they are going to have to pony up the dough to have a good time. I can definitely see the benefits of paid sexual transactions. You could be a guy and go out on a date and still not get laid even after you paid for an expensive evening out. Many times they are just going through those rituals to get to the prize at the end of it. Getting laid.

Ones that go to an escort, or use phone or cam girls are paying yes, but there’s a 100% chance that they will be getting off. No emotional head games either to worry about. Just pay for what you want and then leave. It’s really a sensible set up and gives them what they want. You have to pay for such an experience and they understand this. Not all guys are a Romeo type that have their pick of woman. So they pay for what they want and they accept it for what it is.

No shame, no guilt, just here’s your fee, let’s get to business, and then, bye bye. Lots of phone sex clients have also been to escorts, they discuss this frequently. Some men might like to experiment with a tranny escort, but wouldn’t be looking to date one or have them in their life for a relationship. Paid sexual transactions make a lot of sense on a lot of levels. The shame needs to be removed, and it would be good if ladies felt as free to go after them as some men do. Think how many cougars are craving young cock but don’t have any young guys to fuck. Imagine going online and picking out a guy and having him show up, just like if you ordered a pizza! Sounds a lot better than just dreaming about it, eh?

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Reclaiming Virginity

In today’s world, it doesn’t seem like virginity would matter to many, but it does to some cultures and religions. Even in North America, to many religious folks, it’s prized. I’ve spoken to several Mormon’s over the years and it seems crazy in this day and age they still ask their young people to abstain. Yet when last I checked, people from Utah had the highest online porn subscriptions of any state. Seems a bit ironic, eh?

One guy I talked to was a Mormon, and he and his wife had gotten married without any sex at all and he loved it, she didn’t and so jerking off was pretty much all he got. So for gals that came from such backgrounds yet were not able to control themselves, they can either have the hymen restoring surgery to make their husbands think they are untouched on their wedding night, which is expensive and I’d assume somewhat painful, or they can buy something that is apparently popular with some, a fake hymen kit. I’m not kidding. For $30 you can buy a fake hymen and fake blood kit to make it appear as though hubby has burst your cherry for real.

In ancient times, after the wedding night the grooms family used to hang the blood stained sheets out the window for ones to see as proof. I kid you not. Now considering a hymen can be broken easily during everyday activities, not all women are going to bleed during their first time, so I’m kind of wondering what they’d do. I’ve read before about how some would place fish bladders filled with blood inside for a small gush of blood. My, the things ones do…

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The Babysitter

Lots of family men out there are indeed lusting after the babysitter or the nanny. It’s only natural. You have a woman usually a good deal younger than your wife, likely in better shape than your wife since she never had kids, and you see her around your house a lot. Maybe if it’s a nanny, she even lives under your roof and you have access to her panties to sniff, or her toys to lick after she’s done using them.

The wife is likely too tired or doesn’t even care about sex anymore and isn’t paying the attention she should, little does she know the naughty thoughts you have been harboring for the nubile, sexy young girl that’s always within arms reach. Perhaps you masturbate about her as you watch porn since wifey hasn’t the desire to satisfy your cock anymore. A few male celebrities in recent years have been busted publicly for having affairs and even out of wedlock children with the nannies that are or rather were, right under their wife’s nose right in the same house. The wife might not be giving hubby any anymore, but boy she feels pissed off and betrayed when this comes to light! (She’d rather you lead a sexless life like she does.)

The babysitters and nannies out there are often bored with boys their own age and look to the more experienced men around her, and often it’s the daddy of her charges that she will turn her attentions towards. If the man by chance also drives her home, well, then there’s some time on the sly away from wifey for a quickie in the car…

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