One of my favorite callers is very submissive, he visits real like dominatrixes and she is often very cruel in her punishments to him and he laps it up. He genuinely craves abuse and loves it. He even emailed me pics of how red his ass was after she’d paddled him nearly raw. He wore the marks like some kind of badges of honor that he could take her abuse and he loved it. He said it was sore to sit down for days. He always says how he’d like to meet me for real, rent a hotel room and have me beat him up and slap and kick him and then he’d jerk off as I watched him.
Some men love to be punching bags, literally. Another caller has paid women a lot of money over the years and he’s driven hundreds of miles to be beaten by them. I asked how he explains the marks and bruises to his wife and he tells her he fell off of his motorcycle and got banged up. Obviously she knows nothing of how he pays girls to practically break his bones.
It’s interesting how some guys love to be abused to the point of bruising and pain and even cuts, people do like odd things, even when it’s very painful. The time when they are recovering to them, each day of pain is like a sweet reminder of what they went though, it would be interesting to hear what a psychiatrist would say about such extreme masochism.