One of the most taboo fantasies common for a large number of women is in fact one most would never wish to have for real, and that is rape. The act of being forced to have sex against our will. I’d think most that would have this fantasy are in fact thinking of a handsome stranger we indeed find attractive that simply will not take no for an answer that we give into but end up cumming from regardless of our protestations.
I doubt many are thinking of some vile, smelly man that we wouldn’t go within 10 feet of violating us and making us wish we’d never laid eyes on. Some even have fantasies of their boyfriend forcing themselves on them and act that out. I guess as long as a couple has a “safe word” for such a roleplay to stop things if they get out of hand, that is a safe way to envision such a fantasy with no real harm coming from it. I think women with that kind of fantasy are often liking the idea of sex without any guilt, they didn’t ask for it, so they can relax and enjoy it since they are not to blame.
I don’t personally understand it, but there are women that think like that, perhaps ones that were taught sex is dirty and shameful and nice girls simply do not do it willingly. Sadly though, many men will force themselves on someone if they want her and have the opportunity to take her, especially if alcohol or drugs are involved so true consent isn’t even possible. It’s sad that someone could for a few moments of their own gratification scar another person for years, possibly even for life and give them sexual and intimacy issues.