Some men genuinely fear their women will prefer their sex toys to them. For some this is a valid fear. A lot of men are not great lovers, they can’t stay hard, they cum too quickly or they have undersized cocks. Or worse yet, a combination of any of the aforementioned disabilities. Toys will never quit until the battery needs recharging. Some that plug in, like an old school Hitachi Magic Wand, will never quit. So it’s really no surprise why a man would feel threatened by such a device that can dole out unlimited pleasure. What man could possibly compete?
Ladies definitely have their favorites when it comes to sex toys. Sometimes we can be really into one for a while and then a new one will come along and it will have our attention for a while. Masturbation never goes out of style. Many men preferred it when women were dependent on them for their orgasms. Women always had their own hands and fingers of course, but sex toys that virtually guaranteed an orgasm are a fairly recent development of only the last century or so. There were always dildos, from cave man times, but vibrators came about in the 1880’s, and all the fancy new toys a lot more recently. You can see how some would feel threatened.
Alas, some men are never going to be fabulous lovers, so one can hardly fault a woman for turning to a toy that is a guaranteed good time, when the man very well may be a total dud in the bedroom. Sometimes five minutes with a toy and a good orgasm is better than several hours with an inept bumbler that just can’t get the job done. You really can’t have much sympathy for men like that. They should be mocked and belittled. If you feel jealous of a hunk of vibrating plastic, you’ve only yourself to blame.
