There was a call from a man that had a common desire, he wanted to get into swinging, but he has two problems. He’s single, and he also lives in a rural area. These are big problems for ones seeking to get into this. Most groups are basically closed to single men, and he lives far away from an area he’s likely to find such action in. He wanted advice. It’s ironic the ones seeking advice from strangers that have in many cases zero personal experience in these things, or interests. Many think phone sex operators have vast personal experiences and or are nymphomaniacs.
I said to try a convention, which have likely been on hold the last couple of years, and of course even if he can find one, he may have to travel thousands of miles to get to one. There’s also no get laid guarantee. So he may be traveling a long way and not even get anything out of it. He sticks to porn and his own hand and indulges himself that way. I said you might find reality does not meet up to your expectations and have traveled a long way, spent a lot of money to get there and either it’s not going to be as great as you imagine, or you may not even get any sex.
He said he’s heard about these totally dark rooms at these places where ones just wander in and you have no idea who you’re touching or fucking. The idea holds zero appeal to me and sounds horrific, yet he thought it sounded like a great time, you might be getting sucked off by a man and have no clue. He didn’t seem bothered by the idea. He seemed to want to experiment for the sake of experimenting, which I guess to some is an adventure to be sought out. To each their own.
